YOUR PARTNER CAN’T FULFILL ALL YOUR NEEDS

Even if your husband is Dangote, Kanye & Barack or your wife is Oprah, Kim K & Genevieve……No one in this life can fulfill all your needs, I mean…That’s even too much pressure to put on anyone born of a woman.

Sometimes, we think that being with the right person would be/should be the answer to all our problems. But like anything, there’s no cure-all for our issues.

It isn’t losing weight, landing the right job, getting married, or anything of the other things that we wish would magically turn our life around.

Sheesh, life is complicated, isn’t it?

So by the same token, our romantic partner is not designed to meet all our needs and fulfill our every expectation. No one person can do that.

Your partner will be a lot of things to you, including a friend, but there are also needs you must meet yourself, as well as needs that can be met by your family, your community, your occupation, your hobbies, or your faith/spirituality.

This is good to remember if you’re feeling dissatisfied in your life. When we’re looking to another person to fulfill a need for us, we can tend to project. This can turn into thoughts like “I’m bored in my relationship. Maybe we’re unhappy. Maybe we should break up,” which can spiral out of control into something bigger. But if you recognize a projection, you might discover a deeper truth.

Maybe you’re lacking community and friendship. Perhaps creativity is missing in your days. These are the types of issues that can be projected onto the wrong person, so it’s important to learn how to understand and tend to our own needs.

Before you kill someone’s Son or daughter…..

Boyà kènì nice day o