FINDING BALANCE IN MARRIAGE IS A LIFETIME JOB

Balance…

The most overused word when people describe women.

She is a balanced woman

Hmm!

Balance…

Isn’t that what every married, single & getting-it woman craves?

That ability to slay in the boardroom, on the homefront, and in the inner room all at the same time, while also receiving the best mother of the year award!

Hmmm…

It’s not that balance is not good

It’s that it is impractical…

And we put so much strain on our mental health trying to find it…

Finding balance is a lifetime project. It is ongoing. It is not a finite goal at the end of which you will have a peaceful, calm, and meaningful life. Balance is a way of living. It is a process.

And the thing about marriage is, you can have it all, but not at the same time, and not in equal proportion.

Marriage is hard work.. combine that with birthing and raising children, being a king woman at work.. and struggling to balance it all.

It’s a lot and the constant struggle robs us of the blessings and joy of the little triumphs we should celebrate which in turn makes us a grumpy partner…

Before we delve deep into the marriage conversation, I wanted to say this to you dear woman trying so hard to find balance and have it all…

It’s doable, achievable, and realistic but at different time zones with different goals in different phases of life…if you’re willing to put in the work.

While you’re trying to figure this out, Learn to live in the moment and enjoy NOW!

Balance will find its rhythm when you find your beat