NORMALIZE WORKING ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP
If there’s anything that I’ve learnt about relationships is that the best time to deal with some potential issues or challenges are when it seems perfect and everything is going well…..Almost like, in time of peace, prepare for war…so that you can strategically win the war.
There might not even be a war, because you’ve positioned your relationship to weather the storm.
Ever heard the term, if it isn’t broken, don’t fix it? Na lies o…..Keep fixing it, so that it doesn’t get broken. Why wait for it to be broken in the first place?
The best time to fix your relationship will be:
1, When you guys are very happy is when you should see a therapist/counsellor, not when everything don paáfukà
2, When you guys are grinning at each other ear & dear” is when you should talk about your sexual pleasures and fantasies…..Not when your relationship is going through a very rough and tough patch. (Not to say you can’t at these times too, but it’s just easier at the happier times)
The best time to solve a problem is before the problem even manifest…
Don’t now become unbearably paranoid to the point where you frustrate your partner with a problem that doesn’t exist o, I’m just saying, “He who thinks he stands should apply caution, less he falls”
Working on your relationship requires a lot of Communication, compromise and listening.
And the people in relationships shall say a louddddd…..Amen! Lol