20 YEARS OF LEARNING SERIES
There is so much fuss about parenting the right way, so many unending articles have been written, seminars organised, so many formulas “ear & dear” 😱, and on these streets of social media, alot of aspire to pespire have risen loudly, echoing false narratives, sharing all kinds of untested information, tilting towards further confusing you 🙄🤥🤦🏽♀️Ah!, Nibo latun jasi bayi o 😭🤣🤣
See ehn, I strongly believe that, if you want to raise healthy, Godly, and really good kids, you must first be a “Healthy, Godly and really good individual/parent. That’s the equation, no magic happens in the middle.
The problem is that, people want to raise who they are not and that’s just Laughable. Alot of the time, your children model your values, your style of communication & your sense of relations.
I always say this to my mentee, focus on creating the right family values, the right eco system and family culture, build the best communication with your partner, rid your relationship of all that can weaken it at its core, and in all, make sure its a good marriage, a marriage that works and a marriage that is completely devoted and submitted to the one that is bigger than the both of you, and watch how your kids will turn out.
Atleast, that’s the equation that has worked for mine.
Some of you shout at your partner at any slight provocation in front of your kids, insult, lie and disrespect everyone and anyone, your children see this every day and you suddenly want to teach them borrowed values 🤥🙄 for where??
Na lie o, na that your bad behaviour dem go become 🤥🤔
Children don’t emulate what you tell them, they emulate what/who you show them.
Good kids don’t make a good marriage, a good marriage makes good kids.