TALK ABOUT SEX, YOU ARE NOT SPOILT

I know having conversations about sex can be daunting, intimidating, and vulnerable but isn’t that where real growth, awareness, and acceptance comes from?
I’m very aware of how specifically the “black society” hasn’t made this entire process and conversation easier to unpack… You either grew up with parents who shy away from talking about this or think it is uncomfortable and immoral to discuss this, so children grow up to be the same adults they resent, so the circle continues….. I even know of the popular outlandish tales some very conservative parents have told their kids to maybe scare them away from having or talking about sex, something like “If a man as much as touches you, you will get pregnant ”  like pregnancy is a contagious virus or it just jumps at you without will”

While we can say that our parents “No try”, we slowly & easily become the adults they were…..

Even with my recent posts, I can’t tell you how many people have been uncomfortable by them “on my behalf o”  because of the veil & misconceptions society has daily fed and clothed them with.

Listen, not being able to talk about anything you want is demonic and should not be encouraged, push past this stereotype and become comfortable talking about sex like you talk about “The increase in petrol price” Nnnanugo!

Talk about it with your full chest…..

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