20 YEARS OF LEARNING SERIES
In my recent previous post, I had addressed one of the dynamics of the relationship between a MIL & DIL, and my Dm became fuller than the waste Lawma refused to come and carry on my street 🤣🤣 I was shooketh! It shooketh me by surprise 🤣Lol The truth must […]
20 YEARS OF LEARNING SERIES
Oh! I had to learn this the hard way o 🙆🏾♀️😭, earlier on in our marriage, I remember how I might have misread a situation that happened btwn Oga & I, the thing pain me sò te, I might have called my bestfriend at the time, my sister and before […]
20 YEARS OF LEARNING SERIES
Combining families after marriage can be challenging. Suddenly, you have additional parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins and grandparents even 🤦🏽♀️🙆🏾♀️ as if, the one in your own immediate family is not enough….but the list goes on and you know what’s shocking? You have to atleast get to know them and […]
20 YEARS OF LEARNING SERIES
So it’s been an intense couple of days, but i didn’t want to leave you people hanging 😁, although I had wanted to speak on a different topic today, until I overheard someone around me say “They don’t want to marry someone that still had their mother alive, preferably an […]
20 YEARS OF LEARNING SERIES
There is so much fuss about parenting the right way, so many unending articles have been written, seminars organised, so many formulas “ear & dear” 😱, and on these streets of social media, alot of aspire to pespire have risen loudly, echoing false narratives, sharing all kinds of untested information, […]
20 YEARS OF LEARNING SERIES
I have seen many women especially, drown themselves in deep sorrows several years into their marriage echoing that “They don’t recognize who they’ve become, and they are not of “Sufficient value outside of the shadow of their spouse”. In other words, they have successfully abandoned themselves like one of those […]
20 YEARS OF LEARNING SERIES
We are all sitting on this table gallantly and the truth is, we must all learn to quietly come down from our high horse.🙄🤥 I know the temptation of always wanting to be right, always pointing out the errors in every conversation and mostly exhibiting your self imposed “superiority complex” […]
20 YEARS OF LEARNING SERIES
5, Defensiveness is the fastest way to fall out in an arguement, very unconstructive i.e (Blame shifting “I wouldn’t have done that if you weren’t…..or you made me do that) Sounds familiar? Na dem o 😱🙄 “Liquid metal” 6, Speaking with your partner in Contempt i.e (Putting down your partner […]
20 YEARS OF LEARNING SERIES
People fight! People are expected to fight! But you and your partner must KNOW HOW TO FIGHT properly! You’ve to get good at Fighting. Let me explain….. A relationship is a Living, breathing thing. Picture it like the body & muscles, it cannot get stronger without stress and challenges. You […]
20 YEARS OF LEARNING SERIES
HAPPY WEEKEND….