WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP REALLY MEAN
Humans would have the inherent characteristic to be alone and happy, perhaps the population would be a lot less and each one of us would be occupying our own personal island. However, fortunately, and unfortunately, we are highly evolved individuals, for whom to love and to be loved is a very basic necessity. Hence being in a relationship is an option that we do choose, to ensure our “Happily ever afterlife.”
But, with time only the relationship is left behind, with little or no happiness. This happens because we tend to forget what a relationship really means.
This is What Being In A Relationship Really Means:
1. Having faith, freedom, and friendship
You need to have faith. A constant nagging or a skeptical attitude will ruin the relationship. You need to have the freedom to speak for yourself, the freedom to follow your heart, and the freedom to make your own choices, while you are enjoying the relation with the bondage of friendship. Being in a relationship means a balance between freedom and bondage.
2. Giving and getting the time
Women want someone to understand them whereas men often want someone to connect to them through watching a football match or playing video games with them. Hence giving and getting time, is one important aspect of being in a relationship.
3. Being Patience
It takes time to give and get time, so be patient. Accepting your partner with his/her imperfections needs patience. Things will be perfect, with a little patience. There is no point in having daily fights over the routine habits of your partner. He/she needs time to change himself/herself.
4. Being Able to Share
Sharing feelings, emotions, finances, thoughts, words, and actions enables you to spend some quality time with your partner. This makes you feel complete in your own world of two people. When you share, you connect. When you connect, then the relationship begins.