20 YEARS OF LEARNING SERIES
Let me just “serve you breakfast ” this morning because, breakfast in bed is the best kind of meal #PunIntended
See ehn, you are absolutely not going to be ‘gaga’ over your partner every single day for the rest of your lives #askmarriedpeople , so all this ‘happily ever after’ fantasy stories na Zobo 🤷♀️🤦♀️, and it is just setting people up for a collosal failure.
People go into these relationships with unrealistic expectations. Then, the instant they realize that they aren’t feeling ‘gaga’ anymore, they think the relationship is broken and over, and they need to get out ASAP. No!
There will be days, or weeks, or maybe even longer, when you aren’t all mushy-gushy in-love. You’re even going to wake up some morning and think, “Ugh, you’re still here….” 🤦♀️🙆♀️🤷♀️ and THAT’S NORMAL!
And more importantly, sticking it out is totally worth it, because……in a day, or a week, or maybe even longer, you’ll look at that same person and a giant wave of love will inundate you, and you’ll love them so much you think your heart can’t possibly hold it all together and is going to burst.
Because a love that’s alive is also constantly evolving. It expands and contracts and mellows and deepens. It’s not going to be the way it used to be, or the way it will be, and it shouldn’t be. Honestly!
I think if more couples understood this basic emotional circle of living, they’d be less inclined to panic and rush to break up or divorce.
Because think am na, even the butterflies you’re looking for everyday, don’t always fly. 😁✌️ Be calmin down o, Comrades!