20 YEARS OF LEARNING SERIES
Men marry women, hoping they never change, women marry men, hoping they change, and even worse, hoping that they can change them…Ladies, how’s that working out for you?
YOU CANNOT CHANGE AN ADULT. You haven’t even been able to change yourself all these years , why do you think you can change someone else? 🤷🏽♀️ as in, A Moving, Living, Breathing thing…..Wheeew! What a scientist you are
My point is, Marry people just the way they are now, for who they are today, if they change along the way, Great! adapt, but thinking a lizard would suddenly turn into a Lion is Laughable.
Which is why women especially, go into a marriage with someone they dated for 2yrs, saw all the patterns and red flags, but still married him nonetheless, 6 months into their marriage, she’s complaining about the same thing he was doing while they were dating .Did you have a brain transplant or makeover?
What were you hoping for?
Marriage won’t necessarily change a man that doesn’t want to change.
I just hate to be the one that breaks it to you, but a Peugeot cannot suddenly become a Tesla because i bought it from the auto shop. If you want a Benz, marry a Benz, if you want a Danfo marry a Danfo, if you want a Toyota……You get the point now right? Yea! ✌️
I’m not saying people are incapable of evolving overtime, I am saying that they will, on their own terms, not because your expectations forces them to.
I dey come, make i go meet my Prado for house.