SEX IS NOT NATURAL, IT’S LEARNED
Like the phone you buy from computer village, the charger isn’t “Follow come”, they are maybe bought separately (except your brother is chukudi and he owns the store )
But the point is, a lot of us have the wrong idea about sex and have formed an entire belief system around the exaggerated & carefully curated scenes from movies and porn sites….so you just automatically imagine that when you and your partner get together, both of you will just automatically start “Breaking lamps, tearing each other’s clothes, opening the door with your elbow while she’s intensely kissing you, carrying her by the thighs over the kitchen counter” etc hay God o!……huh? “I do not believe it Lol
No one was born “Spartacus or a Sex goddess”
Those people on those porn sites are actors & actresses…Including the movies duhhh!
And even in those porn sites, they were probably 100 cuts, 50 lubricant application, several scenes break, actors re-learning their lines, actresses forgetting how to moan correctly, etc and YOU just sit down in your house, digest all of those and expect someone’s child to just “Perform & be perfect ” like the people you just watch. Whalahi, you don’t have sense & your village people have gotten you o.
The best sex gets better with time, with a lot of learning, patiently unlearning, and compassionately guiding each other into a much pleasurable experience, and from that moment…… it might just be cruise control…
Don’t go and be putting pressure on somebody’s child o
The peace of the Lord I Whatttt??? bring to you o…