92% OF WOMEN FAKE ORGASM
Don’t lie, but how many of you have fake-moan an orgasm before? How many of you have acted like you reached an orgasm with your partner when in an actual sense…..e no choke at all? And you’re just massaging his ego!
Raise your hand if this has happened to you once, many times, or at some point in your sexual quest and escapes…..no lie o, Lol
The first thing to remember is the concept of women getting pleasure during sex hasn’t been “traditional” for a long time. The pleasure was seen as something women gave to their men, so it was not usual for a woman to seek her own pleasure without society turning their noses up at her. Women have only recently become more intentional about seeking their own satisfaction and to date, some still choose not to, so as not to be judged. Others don’t know how to go about it, so they just stick to faking it.
Listen, this is the generation of women who will “Sòròsóké” and communicate with empathy, love, and kindness to their partners what their needs are and how he can better help them get their heads into the clouds.
But for this to happen, you obviously need to have a talking relationship with your spouse, one that encourages openness and rids of all judgments & shaming, one that clearly translates this term “Naked & not ashamed. #beingcomfortablewitheachother
Additionally, the woman has to know her body enough, she has to know what tickles her, know what stimulates her body, what sends her into a spaceship in 2 secs, and be confident enough to talk about it. (Sex toys are a great way to learn your body, but that’s a conversation for another time)
And honestly, reaching an orgasm for some women is being with a man who actually cares about making sure the woman gets an orgasm….. Some aren’t just that sensitive, they want to stick their pen*s in there “Gboooom” and just come out “Gbaooooo”. These are bandits…Lol, Arrest them.
But seriously women, it’s okay to always want to please your men but never forget to demand the same of him as well. Stop faking orgasms and sounding like a broken-down ambulance truck “Waoeeee weeeeoann Oouueccch” Gbògbò yèn ò neccestri na…Ò