UNRESOLVED TRAUMA
Unresolved trauma looks like the slap Will Smith gave to Chris Rock last night because hurt people, hurt people. Both Chris Rock and Will Smith were wrong but Will needs help in resolving his trauma. As an industry leader, his execution was poor, he lacks emotion mastery and allowed anger […]
STRAIGHT FROM NAIROBI
Straight from Nairobi, Kenya from my @aspennewvoices family reunion to Abuja, Nigeria to speak at the Nigeria Judicial Institute(NJI) to all the Judges of the Court of Appeal and Sharia courts on mental health, stress management and healthy living. I was tired but gingered up talking to all my Lords […]
HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY
Irrespective of your language, where you are from, your gender, race, colour, mothers are the most beautiful word on the lips of mankind. Being a full-time mother is one of the highest salaried jobs since the payment is pure love. Mother is the heartbeat in the home; and without her, […]
FIVE THINGS TO QUIT RIGHT NOW
Overthinking no fit solve the problem, better days are ahead…#Zlatan said it all. Fearing change only amplifies your limiting beliefs. Unlearn this and do it afraid. We live everyday and die only once. Be in the present and don’t allow your past to affect your future. Don’t be other People’s […]
KENYA BY ASPEN
It has been an absolutely amazing week of bonding, laughter, networking and having a great time with my fellow @aspennewvoices family members. As a full pandemic fellow from beginning to the end, imagine the joy of putting body and legs to people you have only seen their faces online. Those […]
WHY MORE WOMEN ARE BECOMING DEPRESSED
Women are more prone to depression because of the following reasons but you want to talk about single women and married women. Generally, in the hormonal makeup of single women, we have oestrogen and progesterone. Those are the hormones that will signal developing breasts, that will signal menstrual flow, that […]
KEYS TO A HEALTHY BRAIN
Dark chocolates top the list for boosting grey matter in the brain, Likewise, sex is essential for keeping the brain fit in later life. Sex has a positive impact on the mind with the raised levels of oxytocin or the “trust” hormone. While the post-coital rise in serotonin levels aids […]
FIVE HOBBIES YOU NEED IN 2022
Everyone you meet has something to teach you. Likewise, everyone you will ever meet knows something you don’t. Surround yourself with positive people who will support you when it rains, not just when it shines. Tell yourself these words of affirmation. “I’m gonna make the REST of my LIFE, the […]
YOU ARE ALLOWED TO
Take a deep breath and remind yourself that you don’t have to be in control of everything.
MENTAL HEALTH IS NOT MENTAL ILLNESS
[11:20 am, 14/03/2022] +234 805 114 9585: Please, let us not allow ignorance lead us astray. I have just explained the differences in my post. Stop confusing mental health with mental illness. While we all have mental health, we do not all have mental illness, disorder or disease. Studies have […]








