THE PRESSURE TO GET MARRIED AT A CERTAIN AGE IS UNECESSARY
Listen, I don’t know who issued this “statistical calendar”, but something is definitely wrong with them…This pressure that we have believed and passed down to generations is unhealthy and ultimately ridiculous. We need to normalize setting our own life agendas, calendar, and aspirations “by ourselves”, not influenced, manipulated, or pressured […]
WOMEN SHOULD BEG THEIR MEN TO SUCK THEIR BREAST
Fellow Nigerians & the women who live there… See ehn, these matters are no longer a private conversation, let’s talk about it in the open so that everyone can learn, do better and live healthier lives. A lot of these health issues I see at the clinic every day can […]
MARRY PEOPLE THAT ARE GOOD FOR YOUR MENTAL HEALTH
And when I say people, I’m also referring to all the people, family, friends, etc that are attached to them. If your mother in law, partner families do not approve of your union, Don’t go and be flexing your muscle and screaming “You’re a man/woman of war and the “Lè […]
MARRIAGE IS MORE THAN LOVE
Reading about the marriage break up of Bill & Melinda gates “Gbèmi nì handicap o” and I know this raises a lot of questions in the minds of everyone…… Pls understand this; There is more to Marriage than just 2 people being and falling In love, those 4 letter words […]
TALK ABOUT SEX, YOU ARE NOT SPOILT
I know having conversations about sex can be daunting, intimidating, and vulnerable but isn’t that where real growth, awareness, and acceptance comes from? I’m very aware of how specifically the “black society” hasn’t made this entire process and conversation easier to unpack… You either grew up with parents who shy […]
TALK TO YOUR CHILDREN ABOUT SEX
Now you understand why I started talking about sex publicly recently…….This conversation runs really deep and we haven’t even started scratching the surface yet, but I am committed to keep educating the general populace as much as possible, but beyond that and with the recent happenings in our society, Parents […]
HURTING PEOPLE HURT OTHER PEOPLE
And the vicious circle continues……broken children grow up to be broken adults, and today’s adults, were also once broken children….. You get it now? We as Parent’s need to do better watching, nurturing and communicating properly with our kids, we need to become the parents our children can run to […]
SEX ISN’T JUST FOR PROCREATION
Being a Dr. In this Nigeria is not for the weak o…. I’ve been seeing human beings walking as trees #ConsultationWankeeme but we MOVEEEE! So I know a lot of women and of course” some men strongly believe that the primary function of their private part is to either score […]
DON’T PANIC WHEN YOU STOP FEELING THE SPARK
Lass Lass…na for you to receive sense and be calming down as life na poco a poco we gat to take am o… Every day, I counsel a lot of people who have a great relationship/Marriage (but they are the last to know it) because they’re pacing to & fro […]
THIS IS A RED FLAG
I have been “trying to” and “not to” process this matter for the last 48hrs but my brain has been acting like a laptop with a bad wifi service because how in the “Gorilla glue” did this happen pls? What parent in their right mind will allow this? What kind […]