ASKING TO BE TOUCHED IS NOT A SIN
Sex should be fun, but it can also be complicated. A lot of people get really intimidated about the idea of giving feedback during & after sex, especially since you rarely see this kind of communication in a sex scene on TV or in movies, there’s this stereotype that we’re […]
ANOINTING OIL ISN’T LUBRICANT
If you’re sexually active or old enough to have sex, this post is for you. For all my many years as a therapist, I have had to take on seemingly difficult conversations with clients and this subject matter is one of them….seeing as we live in an environment that encourages […]
MY PULL OUT GAME IS STRONG. LIES LIES
Lie lie Lover…. Ever heard a man tell you this? And it ended in premium tears? Those are dem”, the descendants of Eve Pulling out doesn’t really have a science bit to share with you, in fact, it’s probably been around since before we had a word for science. Pulling […]
MEN NEED MORE SEX TO BE HEALTHIER
Wahala for who never marry o… I was having a consultation with a client yesterday and I realize that this conversation is very necessary at this point. A lot of men are at risk of having Prostate cancer or an enlarged Prostrate (which can still lead to Prostate cancer) when […]
AFRICA: USE TEACHERS TO HELP AFRICA’S YOUNG PEOPLE WITH THEIR MENTAL HEALTH
Even before the pandemic, one in five African teenagers had thought about suicide, according to a study released last year. And this was the highest such prevalence in the world. A separate study from 2019 reported that 12 % – one in ten – Nigerian adolescents had attempted to kill […]
HAD SEX YESTERDAY?
If you had sex yesterday and your partner managed to convinced you that his “pull out game is still the real deal” and he’s a descendant of àmàdiohà and you don’t want to get pregnant……Pls, use “Postinor” drugs today. Don’t be surprised if your heavenly children are singing your name […]
LUBRICANTS AREN’T ENGINE OIL
The number of questions and emails I’ve received in the last couple of days from you people ehn! Thank you for trusting me with your thoughts! In the next couple of days, I will attempt to make a post randomly to address them…if you stay with me! […]
SEX LUBRICANTS PROS AND CONS
Before I go into my sessions, Webinars, and speaking engagements for today, let me just drop this wisdom here, so that you people can “Joitz things down” in the voice of “Josh2funny” Like I mentioned in my previous post, there are different types of Lubricants (Not engine oil […]
YOUR PARTNER CAN’T FULFILL ALL YOUR NEEDS
Even if your husband is Dangote, Kanye & Barack or your wife is Oprah, Kim K & Genevieve……No one in this life can fulfill all your needs, I mean…That’s even too much pressure to put on anyone born of a woman. Sometimes, we think that being with the right person […]
THE PRESSURE TO GET MARRIED AT A CERTAIN AGE IS UNECESSARY
Listen, I don’t know who issued this “statistical calendar”, but something is definitely wrong with them…This pressure that we have believed and passed down to generations is unhealthy and ultimately ridiculous. We need to normalize setting our own life agendas, calendar, and aspirations “by ourselves”, not influenced, manipulated, or pressured […]