SEX IS LIKE CHINESE DINNER
Today is Sunday o, so it’s a good time for a sermon… Fellow Nigerians, sex is for 2 people, not 1 person. You’re not having sex for your partner, you’re making love to please yourself and your partner, not just for yourself or just for your partners’ pleasure. It is […]
RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN AGING AND SEXUAL DEPRESSION
Sexuality is one aspect of the emotional and physical intimacy that men and women experience throughout their lives. In adulthood, the closest intimacy is accomplished by physical and sexual relationships. Sexual intimacy is desired by older adults when there is a partner and a health status that allows sexual relationships. […]
SEXUAL FRUSTRATION AND DEPRESSION
In our present-day world, there is a growing prevalence of different sexual behaviors and orientations. The internet has played a role in creating expectations in what sex is supposed to feel like, making us think that we’re supposed to be having mind-blowing sex all the time. No matter your relationship […]
DEPRESSION AFTER SEX: THE ROLE OF RELIGION
Religion as an entity has received renewed attention as a potent belief system and a force that influences the culture that can powerfully shape individuals’ attitudes towards sexual behaviors. Growing up in a society where sex is seen as sacred and sexual purity is expected from young people as they […]
SEX AND DEPRESSION: LIVING WITH A DEPRESSED PARTNER
Living with a partner going through depression can be challenging and in turn affect our mental health when the affection and intimacy gotten from our partner is missing. Depression is a mental disorder that can affect one’s general life leading to sexual challenges such as: Inability to experience pleasure. Loss […]
SEXUAL ADDICTION
Sex addiction is defined as a lack of control over sexual thoughts, urges, and impulses. While sexual impulses are natural, sex addiction only refers to behaviors that are done in excess and significantly impact one’s life in a negative way. A person with sex addiction may have a compulsive need […]
WOMEN NEED MORE SEX THAN MEN
Before I start explaining the above, let me just paint a picture! Lol Remember that the erratic female Boss that doesn’t let you close on time, yells at you, always angry like an angry bird, and typically just always acting like she’s always doing vigil with her village people? Yea […]
ASKING TO BE TOUCHED IS NOT A SIN
Sex should be fun, but it can also be complicated. A lot of people get really intimidated about the idea of giving feedback during & after sex, especially since you rarely see this kind of communication in a sex scene on TV or in movies, there’s this stereotype that we’re […]
ANOINTING OIL ISN’T LUBRICANT
If you’re sexually active or old enough to have sex, this post is for you. For all my many years as a therapist, I have had to take on seemingly difficult conversations with clients and this subject matter is one of them….seeing as we live in an environment that encourages […]
MY PULL OUT GAME IS STRONG. LIES LIES
Lie lie Lover…. Ever heard a man tell you this? And it ended in premium tears? Those are dem”, the descendants of Eve Pulling out doesn’t really have a science bit to share with you, in fact, it’s probably been around since before we had a word for science. Pulling […]